HOW DO YOU STOP AND WHAT IS THE BEAUTIFUL THINGS THAT I LIKE

the beauty in life is everything. my family, my friends, the people who care for me, living in  a country that doesn't have any wars, having clothes and shoes, water and food, just everything in life that is beautiful, and great to have. how do i stop wanting all the awesome things in life? i just say to myself and walk away form whatever it is that i want. if i want a shiny new car, but i know that i probably wont be able to keep up the payments, then i will realize that and come to my senses, and instead, go over to maybe a used car dealership, even though its not really what i want, its the right thing to do.